10 tips on personal space in family and relationships

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There is a stereotype that you need to be together everywhere and always. However, human psychology is such that time alone with oneself is a vital necessity. Even the hottest and most tender relationships cannot replace personal space. If your partner is everywhere with you, controlling your every step, it can cause significant discomfort, leading to a desire to "break free from these chains."

How can you avoid losing yourself and make your relationship stronger and more trusting? In this article, we will provide useful tips on the topic of personal space in family and relationships.

1. The key to a strong relationship is trust. But your relationship will be stronger and more harmonious if you are as honest as possible not only with each other but also with yourself.
2. In case of misunderstandings, simply share your feelings with your partner and ask about theirs.
3. Sometimes it can be difficult, but you must learn to compromise with your loved one in some matters, without turning everything into a "matter of principle."
4. Never blame a person for wanting to be alone or for spending little time with you. Again, a heart-to-heart conversation can help here.
5. Avoid checking their phone, email, social media, wallet, pockets, or planner. Do not infringe on your partner's personal space at home.
6. Ask your partner about something only as much as they are willing to share with you. A sign of comfort zone intrusion might be some nervousness.
7. React appropriately to your partner's desire to walk alone, lock themselves in a room, or simply stay silent.
8. If your partner does not understand the importance of personal space, talk to them about it and explain why it is important to you.
9. As you embrace the idea of personal space, do not forget about your partner. Remember to maintain a balance between your relationship and "freedom."
10. Aspire to expand each other's personal space with your partner — finding more points of connection and common interests.